Our lives are more connected to others than ever before, but it’s estimated most adults have one or fewer confidants in their lives today. Sociologist have called this the “loneliness epidemic.” We believe God has wired us for connection, and that we become more like Jesus by walking alongside one another in the sadness, the celebration, the trials and the joys. Mentors provide another person with a unique and safe place to be vulnerable, sharing their heart and life. In doing so, mentors then have the unique opportunity to listen and discern how God is at work in another person’s life.
Listen to Ali’s story:
Listen to Tayla’s story:
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Mentoring is commitment to intentionally walk alongside another person. Mentoring is not always a formal role or title, but at times it can be.
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Most likely, it will look like going for coffee with your trusted mentor for 1-2 hours every couple of weeks where your mentor will listen, ask good questions, offer perspective, encourage and pray with you. You may decide to meet as a group of three, rather than two.
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We ask for a two semester commitment, from October to April. It takes time to build trust and connection and we want you to experience the benefits of having someone journey with you. You may continue beyond this length if desired. The frequency, time and location of your meetings are flexible, but we suggest meeting twice a month for 1-2 hours as a starting point.
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Beyond the regular mentoring connection you’ll get a chance to take part in one large group session per semester to help you discover your unique story, strengths and gifts.
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Mentoring is for everyone, and anyone is able to apply! However, we designed our mentoring network specifically with young adults and young parents in mind.
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There is a $50 fee per semester ($100 total). This covers the cost of some materials you’ll receive and the honorariums for our large group presenters. It also shows your commitment and ownership to this program.
*If finances are an obstacle to you signing up, please let us know and we will supplement the cost.
Whether you’re a student, young parent or retired professional, all of us need someone who will listen, pray and encourage us. You’re never too old or too wise to receive mentoring. There are a couple simple steps to find a mentor:
Fill out the “Find a Mentor” form below.
A pastor will follow up with you shortly to connect you to a mentor and give you next steps.
Intake for 2024/2025 is closed.
Mentoring isn’t primarily about dispersing wisdom or advice, nor is it reserved for wise old saints. Mentoring is something many people already are doing without even realizing it. There are three steps to become a mentor at The House:
Read over the PDF to understand the framework, expectations, and commitment.
Fill out the “Become a Mentor” application form.
One of our pastors will follow up.
2024/2025 Mentors
WENDY
Wendy is a mother of three children and more importantly grandmother to eight. She runs a small business involving numbers and loves to bike and travel. Her goal is to grow in being an imitator of Jesus.
Sharlene
Sharlene loves having meaningful conversations while enjoying a warm beverage, appropriately finding herself in the career of both counselling and supervising new counsellors. She enjoys learning more about neuroscience when she can, crocheting cute things to gift people, collecting plants, and social hangs with friends. After living 5 years in California, she has also become a big fan of experiencing and enjoying all four of the year's seasons.
Oliver
Oliver is a dad to two beautiful boys and in his spare time enjoys gardening, disc golfing and fine tuning the art of pour over coffee. He serves as the Associate Pastor at The House and is passionate about helping young adults navigate a really significant season of life.
Suzanne
Suzanne lives in West Kelowna and is a mother to three young adult children. She works as a teacher and is passionate about Jesus!
RYAN
Ryan works as the Executive Pastor at The House and spends his free time with his wife and two kids, producing music, or mowing his lawn. He is passionate about helping people find their purpose in Christ.
Charlotte
Charlotte is a mom of two incredible littles who enjoys cooking, mountain biking, hiking and camping. She is passionate about impacting human trafficking and is an entrepreneur in the holistic health community. She is also passionate about creating a space for having someone to go to.
Karen
Karen is an educator, author and writing instructor that loves to engage in conversations about God's unique purpose and plans for each of our lives. She and her husband Kim raised two sons and have been blessed beyond measure with four adorable grandkids. She enjoys biking, swimming, reading and cheering for her grandkids at sports events.
Erica
Erica lives with her two best friends and their two cuddly cats, and in her free time loves to read, play music, rollerblade, and hike. She enjoys connecting on a deeper level with people and being able to provide a safe space where they can talk about anything and everything!
Dave
Dave has been a husband to Judy for the last 38 years and is a father of three grown children. He enjoys motorcycle riding and exploring our great province, and boating our awesome Okanagan Lakes. Dave is an ardent student of God’s word, and a zealous follower of Jesus Christ.
Wayne
Wayne and his wife Brenda reside in Kelowna along with their two married children and two ruggedly handsome grandsons! Wayne enjoys golf, tennis, scuba diving, skiing, reading, and performing arts. Having lived internationally and travelled extensively Wayne enjoys other cultures, climates, and foods!
Glen
Glen and Jacqui have been married for 27 years and have two adult children, a son Kyle and a daughter Georgia. With a career in construction management and a passion for trail running, motorcycles and the occasional drift of a dry fly on a mountain lake Glen has a desire to see men stand with and for each other and and to help and support other men as they grow and navigate their faith, their lives and their careers while learning from each other.
Joya
Joya’s been a part of The House Community since 2016 and has enjoyed volunteering in various roles throughout those years. Outside of attending The House, Joya spends her summers paddleboarding, mountain biking and snorkelling while winters are all about getting in as much skiing as is possible at Big White.
Brenda
Brenda is a mom to two amazing young adults and a grandma to two delightful boys. She loves biking around town, digging in her flower garden, walking with a friend and reading historical novels. A deeply held joy for Brenda's is being present with another to see where God is at work in a particular season of life.